Don't Make a Mistake When You're Driving

Most of us receive more training about how to drive a car than start a micro business. A high percentage of people who start businesses do so because they have a gift or talent they want to see manifest in the world. Or, they love the idea of self employment – not because they have a burning passion for business for business sake.

If this is you, you probably burn a lot of precious energy worried about how much you don’t know, or, feel like an imposter about to be discovered. Or, you make the mistake of getting yourself too busy and then you justify the denial you’re in about not covering the basics. Basically, you hobble along, invest your assets, and prey that it all will work out – somehow.

There is a solution to this new business killer and you don’t have to register for the next MBA session to find it. You start by getting honest with yourself and admit what you don’t know, where your skill sets lack and where you’re not giving your business a fair shake. There is a ton of relief to be had by simply acknowledging and accepting the truth – truth creates reality and reality leads to empowerment.

From the place of empowerment – make a plan to improve one business skill set per quarter. If you avoid doing budgets because finances elude you, take on budgets. If you’d rather file papers than sell, take on sales. Being successful in business requires some real skills and if you don’t naturally have them you need to learn them. Ask for help, buy a book – take on the challenge and you will begin to breathe easier and see the results in your business. What have you got to lose? Only your dream.

It’s easy to misunderstand a man’s intention when you first meet him. Many women think a man’s interest is the same as him wanting a relationship and this is often not the case.

When a man’s attracted to you, he feels physical attraction and often responds based on that alone. Most men are not thinking about a relationship when they first meet.

If you want to increase your chances of finding your dream man, understand how a man’s mind work and let go of any expectations you might have while dating.

For men, dating is to get to know a woman in order to decide if they feel enough attraction to take the interaction to the next step. Most men focus on enjoying the ride, having a good time, having companionship etc. Many women on the other hand think about what it would feel like to be in a committed relationship once they find a man extremely interesting.

It’s hard to let go of this inner drive, but you must keep it in check if you want to be successful or men will pick on your vibe. They will think you have an agenda. When this happens, you start to behave in ways that cause a man to have the feelings that something is just not right. When men start to have this, they automatically WANT to withdraw and do not seem as interested as they once were.